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Drive

Nightmares make people move, Dreams give that movement direction.

Fears push people to act, Desires will them forward. You can pull with greater force than you can push once you train your mind to believe.

Two Forces

Push (Scarcity)Pull (Abundance)
LoudQuiet
UrgentPatient
ExhaustingEnergizing
Burns outCompounds
Minimum to escape painBeyond what's required

The brain treats social needs like survival needs. Threats trigger stress and reduce performance. Rewards increase engagement and creativity.

Three Layers

LayerWhat It IsWhere
FoundationsPhysical needs — shelter, energy, healthWhat we require to survive
Drives (SCARF)Social needs — status, certainty, autonomy, belonging, fairnessHow the brain enforces survival through reward/threat
BiasesDecision shortcuts — loss aversion, social proof, reciprocityHow we actually choose

Drives sit between survival needs and decision machinery. Persuasion is knowing which drive to activate and which bias to work with.

Core Desires

The Shift

  • Push gets you started
  • Pull keeps you going

Use fear to break inertia. Then shift to desire to sustain momentum.

The question isn't whether you have drive. It's whether your drive source is sustainable.

Context

What desire is strong enough to outlast your fears?