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Drive

To help people make progress you need to know what drives them.

Context​

Needs​

People need to feel that they belong.

A wharenui (meeting house) serves as metaphor for building a lives from solid foundations.

  1. Whenua: Trusted spaces where you feel safe and able to be yourself.
  2. Taha Whanau: Family and social well-being.
  3. Mahi Me Te Tākaro: Work and the Play must be in balance.
  4. Taha Tinana: Physical well-being.
  5. Taha Hinengaro: Mental and emotional well-being.
  6. Taha Wairua: Spiritual well-being

Fears​

People are more motivated more fear of loss than realize potential gains. Fears, uncertainty and doubt prohibit the opportunity to create value from a state of flow. General fears include:

  • Direction:
    1. Fear Uncertainty and Doubt (FUD)
    2. Fear of Missing Out (FOMO)
    3. Irreversible Errors
    4. Change and The Unknown
    5. Failure
  • Social Fears:
    1. Rejection
    2. Loneliness
    3. Being judged
    4. Public speaking
  • Mental Health:
    1. Genetic Traits
    2. Feeling Inadequate
    3. Loss of Agency
    4. Imposter Syndrome
  • Physical Health:
    1. Becoming seriously ill
    2. Losing physical mobility
    3. Getting old

See fear setting practice.

Desires​

How can you create systems to optimize time and mind+energy to live in balance?

Value Ledger​

How do you measure a life well-lived?

  • Time multiplied by positive interactions?
  • Progression towards your inner sense of purpose?
  • Health
    • Breath
    • Nutrition
    • Physical Agility
    • Mental Fitness
  • Environmental
    • Shelter
    • Surroundings
  • Emotional
  • Work
    • Purpose and Meaning
    • Capabilities vs Requirements
  • Spiritual
    • Connection
Mantra

Fulfilment is a state of mind

Obstacles​

Common problems and challenges people face as they navigate their lives.