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Value System

What's worth measuring — and what breaks when you try?

Value lives in three layers — the base is quantifiable, the middle is inferrable, and the top resists measurement entirely.

The Hierarchy

LayerWhat It ContainsMeasurable?Breaks When...
UtilityEnergy, security, shelter, foodYes — calories, kilowatts, square metresOptimized without the layers above
DesireBelonging, gratitude, status, connectionPartly — proxies exist but strip contextProxies become targets (Goodhart's Law)
BeliefSpirit, soul, purpose, meaningNo — attempts to quantify destroy the thingReduced to utility metrics (GDP, followers)

Needs met create the foundation for desires to emerge. Desires met create the foundation for meaning to emerge. Skip a layer and the structure collapses.

SkipResult
Belief without utilitySpiritual but starving — no platform to act from
Utility without desireSecure but hollow — the golden cage
Desire without beliefBelonging without direction — the tribe drifts

The Capture Trap

Philosopher C. Thi Nguyen identifies the pattern: institutions create metrics, metrics become targets, targets replace the original values.

Original ValueMetric ProxyWhat Gets Lost
LearningGPACuriosity, depth, creativity
HealthBMI, stepsVitality, energy, longevity
ConnectionFollowers, likesPresence, reciprocity, trust
SuccessNet worthPurpose, meaning, relationships
ImpactViews, impressionsGenuine influence, lasting change

The mechanism: metrics need to be portable (easy to transmit, compare, aggregate). Portability requires stripping context. Context is where meaning lives.

A grade travels easily between institutions. What you actually learned doesn't.

Resonance

When two feedback loops couple without destructive interference — your output enhances their loop, theirs enhances yours — that's resonance. The signature: the interaction generates energy rather than draining it.

What AlignsWhat It Means
Mental modelsNot constantly translating
PredictionsAnticipate each other accurately
Value hierarchiesCare about similar things in similar proportions
Nervous systemsBreathing, heart rate, micro-expressions synchronize
Energy flowLeave with more energy than you came with

Resonance lives in the desire layer — belonging, gratitude, connection. You can't quantify it directly. But you can track its inputs (did you show up, did you follow through) and infer its presence from effects (do people come back, does energy increase).

The Scoreboard

What society currently measures vs what compounds:

DomainWhat's MeasuredWhat's Missed
EconomyGDP, employment, inflationMeaning, purpose, wellbeing
SocialFollowers, engagement, reachDepth, reciprocity, trust
EducationGrades, credentials, rankingsCapability, agency, wisdom
HealthCost, procedures, outcomesVitality, prevention, quality of life
BusinessRevenue, growth, market capCulture, sustainability, stakeholder value

These metrics aren't useless. They're portable. They scale. They enable coordination across large institutions. But they systematically miss what can't be easily counted.

The Diagnostic

DimensionWhat It TracksLayer
Commitments keptPromises fulfilled vs brokenUtility — verifiable
Time investedAttention given to othersUtility — measurable
ReciprocityNet giving vs taking over timeDesire — inferrable
Return rateDo people come back?Desire — revealed preference
Energy deltaMore or less energy after interaction?Desire — felt
Co-creationWhat emerged that neither could make alone?Belief — the compound effect

The difference between a value ledger and a social credit score: opt-in vs mandatory, private vs public, reflection vs comparison, multi-dimensional vs one-dimensional. The ledger should make reflection easier, not comparison easier.

Context